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Best Relationship Ever

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                            In now I realised there are three types of relationship between us and  our mind.they are as follows:- 1.Being slave of mind:-Living in a world created by mind and suffering from its thoughts  2.Master of mind :-Manipulating the mind to make it work for our own good and success.Supported by the books such as the power of subconscious mind,the secret and many to quote. 3.Dont mind :-detached from thoughts and be at peace.lord Krishna's philosophy of nishkam karma is based on it. The founder of Buddhism Gautam Buddha taught its application in simplest way.         Most of the time  when things fall out of control and plan goes off the road, we get  controlled by our mind .Until we find out that we are living in mind and nothing is happening in real ,it already has done its work;  yes you are getting it right anxiety takes over...

Death The Reminder

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                         As we grow older we start to take our life so seriously that it culminates into stress, anxiety and worry replacing our childhood innocence, joy, happiness and curiosity. This happens because while living our life we forget about our death ,that one day we are going to die. This is depicted in a really phenomenal way in the movie named  'SOUL', which shows what it means to be ready to live ,which Joe Gardner realises after getting into coma (Nearly dead) . It is said that death is the end of life, so how could it be different from life, rather Death is a  part of life. Life is life because of  death. Death makes the life Complete. It gives the real meaning to the life. So to fully live the life it is most important to understand the death. But nobody introduce us to the death, even our family, society and school don't talk about the death, and  even if they do, they talk about i...

Gift Of The Winter

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                                                           Trees are turning yellow to shade their leaves, sky is clear with bright moon amidst the shinning stars, dews are smiling on the leaves, nest of birds are beautifying the trees ,Ways are becoming mysterious with fog and  roadside golden grass giving it a royal look,sun is shinning gently, air is blowing peacefully, skin is becoming dry, nose is freezing and flowing ,fresh veggies are flooding the market, marigold is blooming to decorate the houses, festivals have lined up, sweaters have came out after long period of hibernation from some unknown corner of your cupboard, fan is happy to get a little rest; Vaseline, boroline, Nivea, boroplus etc popping in through ads asking you to buy them, shekoti is giggling to hear gossiping of men and women and Children's are excited to get...

Emotional Flooding #mindmade calamity

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 "Thoughts of different colour, texture, pattern, taste and smell came but I simply sat down  and took a deep sip of air and it faded away Thoughts faded away but I am still here it means I am not my thoughts"                                                                  Knowingly or  often unknowingly we get caught up in our emotions. Sometimes number of emotions spiral down in our mind and We get so attached to them, that it become  difficult to  separate us from our emotions.  And until we find out it was just an emotion, it had already consumed our  lot of time and energy.                                So, I would like to share my experience of how I got caught in emotional flooding and  the way I d...

Jealousy A Negative Emotion

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No matter what  our age is , or how sensible and  sane we are, we seldom find ourself jealous of someone.Even the successful people are not the exception to it. As jealousy is an emotion it is natural for human  being to experience it. So don't be ashamed of being jealous and accept that you are jealous because the moment you accept it, you are ware of it .But if we don't pay attention to it, eventually it will harm ourselves( Eg:- will make us sad, angry, fearful etc) therefore we must get rid of it. So let's dive into the concept of jealousy:- We are never jealous of person particularly but of the thing which may be material (like money, house , boyfriend/girlfriend etc) or immaterial ( skill, knowledge , problem solving ability etc) that person has. Jealousy is a feeling that arises due to the thing we think we dont have what that person has. Therefore here lies a gap  i.e.between what you think you don't have  but  that person has . This is where you ha...